Food Stamps and Finances

Food is a beautiful gift and a resource. The Fruit Vendor, original oil painting by Steve Henderson, sold

I ran into a blog post this week that asked, Is using food stamps a sin? You’ve got to admit, the headline was catchy.

The writer described her pastor’s stance on the issue (“Yes, it’s a sin”) and to her credit, she disagreed. I am always encouraged when we minions question what’s preached in the pulpit, blared at us from the flat screen, or pronounced at the front of a classroom. It shows that we’re still breathing.

The pastor’s opinion was standard fare: people who take government assistance are lazy, and lazy people are sinners. Boy, I’m sure glad that I don’t go to that church. What’s funny is that part of the speaker’s salary probably comes from donations of people on food stamps, although, maybe not after this particular sermon.

But back to the issue, which we’re not describing, or worrying about as being a sin — what if you, or someone you know, is on public assistance? Are you, or they, financially inept? Do you have any right to talk about finances since you’re obviously so bad at them that you can’t get by without a handout?

Whoa, let’s back up here. My favorite concept of a government

Many hardworking middle class families can’t take advantage of the mortgage tax deduction because they don’t make, or spend, enough. Homeland 1, original oil painting by Steve Henderson sold; licensed open edition print at Great Big Canvas.

handout has always been the eminently respectable mortgage tax break, in which one is allowed to deduct the interest paid on one’s house mortgage. While this sounds great and middle class and everything, the more money you pay in interest — which means the more expensive your house and the larger your income is to afford it — the more you benefit from this break. Realistically, the people who get the most out of this sweet deal are those who really don’t need the money to put food on the table. In other words, if they’re middle class, they’re in the upper regions.

And they’re benefiting from a government program, just like people on food stamps, or energy assistance, or health insurance subsidization, only they probably don’t experience the demeaning aspects of standing in line, hat in hand, to fill out forms and be shunted off to the waiting room.

Don’t get me wrong — people cheat the system — rich or poor; it just looks different and is called by different names. But many programs are supposed to be safety nets, and while they don’t work perfectly or even well (what government program, really, ever does?), they wouldn’t be as necessary if more employers hired fulltime workers and paid them decently. For one reason or another — from corporate greed to just the economy, stupid — too many people are underpaid and unable to meet basic necessities.

Your private life is your private life, and it’s your prerogative to do it your way. I Do It My Way inspirational poster based upon the original painting, Cadence. See all inspirational posters at Steve Henderson Fine Art.

If you are one of these people, or related to one (parents with grown children negotiating the New Economy come to mind), remember this: your finances are your own business, just like your sex life, the latter which we dearly wish more people would keep the details of out of the newspapers and talk shows.

Because each family, and its financial situation, is unique, each family individually negotiates what it has been given, and nobody has the right to get in your face and call you a reprobate because you bought potato chips with your EBT card. People outside your family have no idea if this is part of your regular diet, or a once a year purchase for your child’s birthday.

And anyway, individual people in the grocery store line are not the ones we need to be yelling at.

Times are hard, jobs are scarce; pensions and perks in most of the private sector are non-existent; wages have not kept up with housing, transportation, food, or medical care; the public sector is bloated: these are problems, and most of America is set adrift to figure out how to make a decent living and craft a reasonable life with a significant number of enormous challenges.

If you’re struggling, and having a hard time, don’t add to the stress by belittling yourself. If you need help, get it, and don’t feel as if you have to defend your actions.

If you’re doing okay, and life is good, look around: there are a lot of hurting people out there,

Free yourself from always worrying about money. Live Happily on Less will guide you to making the decisions that are right for you and your family. At amazon.com and Barnes and Noble.

and if you paid for one of them to get his teeth cleaned and a cavity filled, or bought a birthday cake for her 10-year old twins, or just smiled instead of frowned in the checkout line, you’d make a difference.

Join me on Fridays for articles on Financial Health for the regular, ordinary person — that’s what I am: a regular, ordinary person who uses what I have been given to live the best life that I can. My book, Live Happily on Less, is a series of essays — like the one you just read — that explore how you can make the money you get stretch farther.

We own our own house, and have never had a mortgage on it. We bought our car with cash. We run a business — Steve Henderson Fine Art — which has no creditors. And we raised four really decent kids — and most of the time we had a very moderate income at our disposal. Your life will look different from ours, but the essential things — learning to live contentedly and well whatever your situation — is in your grasp.

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This article was originally posted in ThoughtfulWomen.org.

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4 Responses to “Food Stamps and Finances”

  1. Phil Kendall says:

    It is a moral duty to help those who are less fortunate even as me the atheist…

    • Phil — compassion and goodness — they are so good to see, and as you say, we have a deep, inner moral drive to reach out to those who have less. Too many people, however, choose to ignore or override that moral compass or yardstick (meter stick? why do we Americans insist upon some of our funny, archaic ways? but maybe that’s not so bad — not conforming is becoming an increasingly valuable trait these days, and since we conform everywhere else, it’s good we draw the line somewhere, anywhere), and it is people like you, Phil, who show others a better way, by giving.

  2. Israel Wayne says:

    Would it be wrong to go directly to your neighbor and take their money at gunpoint so you can buy food? If not, it does not become ethical to have your congressman take it from them at gunpoint so you can buy food. It is called “forced charity,” which is a form of socialism and God condemns it.

    2 Corinthians 9:7 says, regarding giving to charity, that no one should ever be forced to give out of compulsion. A tax-deduction is a completely different concept than forced charity, which is immoral.

    • An interesting way of looking at things which I don’t quite follow. I would say that whatever our Congressman does involves giving to Caesar unto Caesar, which is pretty much anything to do with taxation.

      People need to eat, and good people work hard to make it in a society that does everything to frustrate them. They don’t need to feel like sinners for taking advantage of a program that is there, and the poor, especially, do not need to be singled out as extra sinners. That’s a far better epithet for the wealthy who have, and continue to get, and do not give.

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